Gift-Giving During Training Trips
by Benjamin Cole

As more and more Bujinkan practitioners make their way to Japan, I am frequently asked what would be an appropriate gift for Soke and the Shihan. While no gift is necessary, if you do decide to take something, here are some things to keep in mind.

When considering a gift, remember that Japanese do not have garages or basements into which they can throw rarely used items. This is why I actively dissuade Bujinkan practitioners from taking non-consumable knick-knacks to Japan for Soke and the Shihan. I personally do not believe that Soke has ever thrown away anything that a student has given him, and two decades of knick-knacks have certainly take their toll. One visit to Soke's house and you will see how these gifts, combined with Soke's respect for the individual giver, have literally taken over his home!

Rather than taking a knick-knack, I personally recommend taking something edible from a local source, such as jam, honey, cookies, tea, etc. If you take something from your home town/state/region, there is a story that comes with it.

The good thing about edibles is that they can be enjoyed by the recipient, but they can also be shared with others when they come for a visit. So Soke (or the Shihan) can proudly explain "This jam is from Michigan" or "My student from the UK brought me this English tea." It becomes a point of pride and allows the recipient to share the gift with others.

If you decide to bring a gift for Soke or the Shihan, try to channel your efforts into finding a local edible. Everyone will gain from your delicious selection. Enjoy your trip!

Benjamin Cole is a Shidoshi, who lives in Ypsilanti, MI. He has a handful of wonderful students who are very forgiving of his insane philosophy regarding Bujinkan Budo Taijutsu. Correspondence can be directed to ben@bushinbooks.com.